A Solo Sojourn in Bhutan: Vanndana's Journey with Thrillophilia

Vanndana just returned from her solo trip to Bhutan and was sitting in the cosy living room with her friend. It was a rainy evening, and the warm light from the table lamp cast a soft glow over the room. Vanndana’s friend was making coffee in the kitchen while Vanndana scrolled through her phone’s gallery, preparing to share her adventure. 

Friend: (Coming into the room with two steaming cups of coffee) "So, how was it? You’ve been gone for so long! Was Bhutan everything you imagined?"

Vanndana: (Taking a sip of her coffee and smiling) "Oh, it was beyond anything I expected. I can’t even put it into words yet, but I’ll try. I think you’ll be surprised by some of the things I did there."

Friend: "You know I was a little worried about you going alone, but now that you’re back, I’m just so proud. But tell me, how did it feel, being there all by yourself? 

Vanndana: (Laughing lightly) "Honestly, I was nervous at first, but once I got there, everything just fell into place. Bhutan is such a peaceful place, and the people there are so welcoming. I felt safe and at ease the whole time. Plus, I made a bunch of new friends along the way!"

Friend: " Really? I thought you were going to be alone the whole time."

Vanndana: "Well, I was solo for sure, but you know how I am. I ended up meeting a few fellow travelers. I made friends at the homestay, while camping, and even during some activities. Everyone was so kind and open, especially the locals."

Friend: "That’s good to hear. So, tell me, what was the first thing you did when you got there?"

Vanndana: (Scrolling through her phone to show pictures) "The first thing I did was visit Paro Taktsang, the Tiger’s Nest Monastery. It’s a 10,000-foot climb to the top, and let me tell you, it was tough! But when I reached the monastery, the view was so breathtaking. I could see the whole valley below. It felt like I was on top of the world.

Friend: "Wow, was it as difficult as they say to climb?"

Vanndana: "Yes, it was! But the journey was worth every step. The monks there were so calm and peaceful. I spent some time talking to them, learning about their way of life. It made me reflect a lot on my own life. They have such a simple, yet fulfilling lifestyle."

Friend: "But, did you ever feel scared being alone in such a remote place?"

Vanndana: (Chuckling) "I did feel nervous at times, but honestly, the beauty and serenity of Bhutan just calmed me. I was never truly alone, though. The people I met were so kind, and I always felt safe. I even met many monks who gave me such beautiful insights about the place?"

Friend: "A monk? Oh my, that sounds so interesting. What did you talk about?"

Vanndana: (Laughing) "We talked about everything— life, happiness, even the weather! It made me realise how much we take for granted in our busy lives. I really learned to appreciate the little things."

Friend: "I’m so proud of you for being open to such experiences. And the views, they must’ve been incredible, right?"

Vanndana: "Yes! The views were unreal. I went to Dochula Pass, which is famous for its 108 stupas and the panoramic view of the Himalayas. The weather was perfect, and I could see the snow-covered peaks in the distance. It felt like I was in a dream."

Friend: "I’m going to need to see pictures of all this later. And what about the food? You didn’t go all the way to Bhutan and not try their food, did you?"

Vanndana: "Oh, I did! I tried Ema Datshi, the national dish. It’s made with chili and cheese, and it’s spicy but delicious. I also had Phaksha Paa. You would’ve loved it. The food is so hearty, and everything feels so fresh. I even tried Suja, their butter tea. It was... interesting. Very salty, but I think I could get used to it."

Friend: "Butter tea? That sounds strange! And I’m sure you didn’t miss out on shopping, right?"

Vanndana: "Of course not! I bought some beautiful handcrafted jewelry and a traditional Bhutanese scarf. I loved how everything was so unique. The markets were so lively, and the vendors were all so friendly. It felt like I was bringing a piece of Bhutan back with me."

Friend: (Looking at the jewellery, impressed) "These are beautiful. You really did get to experience the culture. What else did you do?"

Vanndana: "I also did camping in Thimphu which was one of the best parts. I stayed in a tent right in the middle of the mountains. The night sky was full of stars, and I had a chance to bond with other travellers. We played games, shared stories, and even had a campfire. It was such a memorable experience. I felt so connected to nature."

Friend: "I’m glad you enjoyed it, but I can’t help but worry about you being alone out there. Wasn’t it cold?"

Vanndana: "It was cold, but I was prepared! And honestly, being there in the mountains, surrounded by new friends, felt like I was part of something bigger. I’ve never felt so free."

Friend: “You’ve really grown, haven’t you? I’m so proud of you."

Vanndana: "Thanks, dear! I think this trip changed me. Bhutan made me realise that solo travel isn’t just about seeing new places— it’s about learning about yourself, too."

Friend: “It sounds like you learned so much. I think I’ll start planning my own trip soon!"

Vanndana: (Laughing) "You should! Bhutan is waiting for you, too."

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